Unhappy or Happy?

Something emotional now. I was really affected and I am at work, so I decided to hold my work on hand & start blogging. A couple, guy - 28 years old, gambler, drinker, abusive, hot-tempered & girl- 24 years old, quiet, hard working. A couple who have a son (6 months old) & a daughter(5 years old).

Okay, they are actually friends of ours. The girl always get bullied by the guy. (*Ling* is actually working for the couple). Many times, the girl will take it that nothing had happened and things will quieten down after some times. But like wise, the quarrel will resume after a few days. Never ending story.

Few hours back, *Ling* told me that they had a quarrel again. I called up that girl, she told me that she is bringing her kids home with her. It actually brought me back to some old memories.

Many times we give in because of the kids and feelings, but we suffer even more at the end of the day? Parting is never easy, but you may even be MUCH MUCH MUCH better than you were before. Life still carries on, and you will move along. I believed that everybody have got a certain limit that they can endure, but that's it when they decided leave? You will only learn to treasure when you lost the most precious. Somethings are forever taken for granted till you lose it... Only if the guy is willing to turn over a new leaf, otherwise the family will never be perfect.

Will the girl leave the guy? or will she still carry on to be silence? The answer is still unknown now. =).

[Love never dies of natural death. It dies because we don't know how to replenish it source. It dies of blindness, errors and betrayals. It dies of illness and wounds; it dies of weariness, of witherings, of tarnishings.]

*P.S - I am not encouraging anyone to leave their hubby/boyfriend horrs. I just need to let out cos it is really upsetting and frustrating to me, why do these type of guys exist in the world?